Attempting to Reach Out (Update&personal)

I've heard nothing from my father's other family on the fact that they've told my father that I was trying to reach him-just to tell him he's a grandfather.

Thing 1
 Thing 2
The Cat
I let them know that i was looking for no money whatsoever. I couldn't be more annoyed or p.o'd than I am at them. My brother (rest his punk soul) had mentioned that they were a good for nothing lot and unworthy of him, but that's ultimately his choice.
The boys look a lot like my oldest brother-which is hilarious. One is a gamer-like me, into anime-like me, likes sharp objects; knives-like me, and a few other things, but ultimately, he's a douche for not responding with a healthy F*** off! just to answer me back. It's annoying...
The mother looks like her picture was taken twenty years ago since her hair was blond when i talked to her about 10-13 yrs ago. I was told she was lazy and makes my father work 3 jobs just to support her, their twins, and on the net i found his address that he has them living with him plus her parents...
Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with helping family and it's easier to have others live with you.
I just don't see how he could let them cut us from him. He's OUR FATHER TOO.
Mother says that I'm just waisting my time. Perhaps, but it doesn't hurt to try it. What more can they do but deny me...
How many 7/11's could there in Z-town?

Persecution

Political and religious animosity against Jehovah's Witnesses has at times led to mob action and government oppression in various countries. Their doctrine of political neutrality and their refusal to serve in the military has led to imprisonment of members who refused conscription during World War II and at other times where national service has been compulsory. In Germany, as many as 12,000 Witnesses were sent to concentration camps,^[243] and were identified by purple triangles; as many as 5000 died.^[244] More than 200 men were executed at the orders of German war courts.^[245] In Canada, Jehovah's Witnesses were interned in camps^[246] along with political dissidents and people of Chinese and Japanese descent.^[247] In the former Soviet Union, about 9300 Jehovah's Witness families were deported to Siberia as part of Operation North in April 1951.^[248][249] Their religious activities are currently banned or restricted in some countries, including China, Vietnam and some Islamic states.

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Bullying 2

Students don't often speak up because they do not expect those in authorative postitions to do anything (let alone get them some help) about the problem(s). Even teachers bully their students and/or make fun of them or call them stupid (like my math teacher Mrs. Goldstien) for not getting what other students in the class get and are surpassing the other student(s). Just because the teacher and a few students get it, doesn't mean everyone else gets it too. WAKE UP!

Mexicans get made fun of being 'illegal' or thought of being in a gang. Blacks get considered gang members also and drug dealers or thugs. The strange or darkly attired get called occoltists, animal sacrificers, deviil worshipers (there's a difference between Satanists and being Satanic) or they are called outcasts or loners (only because you think they are or you do not see them among friends at scool or on the outs of school. SpEd students are Special Educations particapants who take extra study halls/special math etc. People call them retards/dorks/losers or consider them too smart to ever be cool. Guess who makes that ipod or cell phone or computer you are all over?... The poor get made fun of for their lack in designer brand clothes or objects. They get called scumbags, too. A real scumbag is the one who bullies others or is a horrid person on the inside while maybe being beautiful or handsome on the outside. How you treat others determines you to be this. Some call the poor incestial or incest babies. Get real. Not everyone marries or sleeps with their cousins or brothers and sisters to keep the bloodline 'clean' like your precious Egyptian royalties back in the day or your Greek and Roman rulers and those English, ya know.

Don't believe me? Read the(real) history books.

A student shouldn't have to end their life to end the pain. Take action! Save a child. Save a friend. They'll thank you later.

Does your boss and/or co-workers herass you to no end? Is it making fun of you behind your back or to your face or is it in front of others-including personal visitors? Is it sexual bullying? Doees your boss and/or co-workers hit on you or make suggestive or lewd comments? Do you ignore them or are you the one who sleeps with in order to keep your job? You shouldn't have to do that. Do you lose rightful promotions for your lack of sex or for being who you are without the sex?

STOP!

Those are wrong things for your bosss and/or co-workers to do to you. A position t work is NOT deserved by sex, sexuality, gender, background, etc. It's earned through hard work and smarts. How many jobs have/do you have where you're in the grind just to have a place to come home to or food that doesn't come from the garbage? You don't have to like your job or co workers but you dont have to take being bullied either. If it's co-workers, go to the boss. If it's the boss, go higher up (Or the BetterBusinessBeurue).

Ever hear the phrase they bully you because they want to be your friend? It may sound lame, but sometimes it's true.

You shouldn't be bullied by your friends either. Did you ever think or wonder if your jokes or teasing effects people around you? Too much could send someone over the edge, even if you didn't mean it or didn't realize you do it to that extent. Maybe you can't stop yourself. Maybe youu don't know that it hurts them.

You have no idea how an appology feels until one is given to you that you really need. Even bullies have feelings.

Bullied Women at Abortions

Don't know about you, but I am PRO CHOICE. A woman should have all rights to their bodies and the life within. No, I'm not saying that a cheating wife should get an aborition just to save her own ass, but it would be her choice to explain things when he grows up looking like dad's best friend. I do absolutely believe that a woman who was raped or a product of family/family affair, than they deserve the abortion. No one sould have a choice made for them. A pregnant teen has every right to want to abort her pregnancy, but maybe she wants the option of open adoption or just plain give-up adoption. Don't blow off a chance at giving the child a chance to live just because it's an inconveniance or that it would get in the way of your continuing party life. Give the child a chance to grow up with posotive options. a family that could take care of them.

Another scarey thing is adoption. Giving the child blindly to others who seem fine could be fatal and sexually abusive. A woman might let her husband rape them at bed time. A single man might rape or sell them to pay their way or support a drug habit. A foster child might even get pregnant by their foster parent and no one would believe them except friends. The system might be believed that it was just a sleep-around symptom against fun. But what ever the choice it may be, be carefully deciding.

A pro choice does not mean murder.
Any state or facility that releases your file on the internet for the public to find is against doctor patient confidentiality and you might win for suing, but dont do just that just because you read it on the internet. Be smart. Make your own choices and do the correct legal thing for you and your baby.
These are a few REDICULOUS laws that bully women who abort.


Describing ultrasounds: Because requiring ultrasounds is not enough, technicians in Oklahoma, Alabama, Louisiana, and Mississippi are required to describe what they see (eyes, a hand, maybe even the sex) during an ultrasound up to an hour before the abortion. Victims of rape and incest are not spared the theatrics.

1. Post patient questionnaires online: Oklahoma requires women to fill out a questionnaire, which asks potentially identifying questions, and then posts it online.
2. Provide info on fetus's ability to feel pain: Nine states are required to tell women how much pain the fetus will feel. This seems like fine information before a woman decides, but afterward?
3. Report inaccurate info on an abortion-breast cancer link: Out of the seven states whose required info provides material on breast cancer risks after abortions, five (Alaska, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Texas, and West Virginia) inaccurately report an increased risk.
4. Focus only on negative reactions: Most calls were about guilt over feeling relief. Yet out of the 17 states that provide info on possible psychological responses to abortions, seven (Michigan, Nebraska, South Carolina, South Dakota, Texas, Utah, and West Virginia) focus on the negative only.

Bullying 1

Your child may be at risk in your school and you'll never know until you find their body or read the note saying why. Your child may not tell you, but you might feel there's something wrong; just can't put your finger on it. Is the coach being too hard? Is my child having study issues? Maybe they didn't make the team they tried out for: cheerleading, football, basketball, wrestling, etc. Whatever. Your kid needs you more than you know. You wake them up, get them around, feed them breakfast, send/take them to school, tell them you love them, and do your own things whle they proceed their education. The kid may or may not believe you when you tell them you love them, because of the bullying; it's usually a problem when somethings been said to the parent(s) , but there's nothing they feel they could do to stop it; they've told their parent(s) but the parent only said "If you fight back, they'll stop." or "That's not my problem". Those are the kind of words that make them feel thrown to the wolves by the very ones they love.

There's many types of bullying: Cyber, empty hallway, sexual herassment, school bus, bus stop, etc.



Cyber bullying is when the chld gets hate mail through the internet or the act of bullying happening to them is broadcasted on the internet for all to see. This could make the child paranoid to who might have seen it. When they see it, they might believe that everyone has seen it. The hate mail could be the hate mail from other students or random people they may or may not have talked to online. Most times one ca n send you email by seeing your name in a Yahoo! chat room and just add @yahoo.com to their name. If you hve more than one yahoo name with that account you could designate one for your email that you might not use, which might only be given to those they trust.

Bus stop bullying is when the children who wait for the bus are being picked on or beaten or pushed around. If this is the case, and you as the parent(s) cannot wait with them  to assure them safety until the bus arrives, but after that, the parent hasn't any more authority on the bus than the student. A bully will see where one door closes, another one will open. The front of the bus is usually the safest place so the driver could have a better chance of catching the bully. The back is   a better chance to bully another student. Especially if the bus is seated to grade.



Sexual bullying is when a student is bullied because of their sexuality. The child may be straight, gay, bisexual, transexual, transgender, etc. Whatever. Sexuality is not something that should be guilty about, any more than the girls should feel guilty about getting together for face masking at a sleep over. No matter the gender, they get picked on. You as a parent may or may not know their chosen sexuality. You might know and never say a word until they come out "of the closet". You as the parent(s) are an important facter in whether the child comes out or not. If you're okay with your childs sexuality, then let them know. Express it subtley if you are too afraid to bring the conversation up.
Many Christian religions are ...not so understanding. The express it genuinely how much of a sin it is. There are other religions that do not mind ANY chosen sexuality such as : Paganism, Neopaganism, Greek pathways, Roman pathways, Celtic pathways, Egyptian ways, Norse ways.

Aztec: Tezcatlipoca, Tlazoteotl, Xochipili, Xochiquetzal

Buddhist: Quan Yin/Avalokiteshvara

Hindu: Agni, Bahuchara Mata, Ganesha, Indra, Ishvara, Kali-ma, Shiva/Siva, Vishnu

Native American/Inuit: Sedna

Sumerian: Asushunamir

Vodou: Baron Samedi, Damballah, Erzulie/Ezili, Ghede Nibo

Welsh: Bran

Not all gods restrict their love to just one gender. Love is love after all.
Writing things on their lockers or on the inside of their locker for them to find. Your child may be straight, but that doesn't stop the bully from embarrassing them with those words. False accusations of sexuality are dangerous until the one getting bullied commits suicide, know what I mean?

Empty hallway is as it says it is. The child is found in an empty hallway with their bully, who uses it to their advantage.
Help your child understand that there's something that can be done about the way they're being treated.  It's not okay to be talked down to by your fellow students (or coworkers, boss, teachers, school princeble, partner, parent[s]), or anyone else. There are consequencest for this treatment and death is one of them. The  one being bullied could commit suicide or the bully could end up killing the one their bullying. The one being bullied could end up a bully themself in the future- whether they're still in school or not. It could effect the way they act at home or towards their partner or their employees and so on and so forth.
((look for part 2 in the future))

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Goth Craft: the Magickal Side of Dark Culture, RaVeN DiGiTaLiS, Llewellyn Publications, First edition, First printing, 2007